Demona doesn't turn to stone at daybreak

[Jenn_is_Jenning]

So moving on.

My dad's car is totaled, air bags deployed. They hit a power pole and it fell over. They had to shut off the power to the whole town they were near.
His gf called 911 and the ambulance came. His face is bloody and they are both really sore. The police drove them home.
He is otherwise OK, aside from the guilt of wrecking his grandpa's car and knowing how special it was.
I'm not sure what more I can do to ease his guilt aside from the things I've already said, but one day at a time.
Very scary thing. He's still my cute lil man and my heart hurts.
Not sure what I'll do about another car at this point . He spent all his free time in that car.

 

[Bump]

So moving on.

My dad's car is totaled, air bags deployed. They hit a power pole and it fell over. They had to shut off the power to the whole town they were near.
His gf called 911 and the ambulance came. His face is bloody and they are both really sore. The police drove them home.
He is otherwise OK, aside from the guilt of wrecking his grandpa's car and knowing how special it was.
I'm not sure what more I can do to ease his guilt aside from the things I've already said, but one day at a time.
Very scary thing. He's still my cute lil man and my heart hurts.
Not sure what I'll do about another car at this point . He spent all his free time in that car.

The car did what it was supposed to do; protect the driver and passenger. He's okay. She's okay. You're a good mother. All is well relatively speaking.

 

[Blusoul24]

Ya, but it's not like I carry myself as if I'm filled with self-loathing, lol. You'd think someone who is extremely overweight would more be advertising "I don't respect myself" than someone who takes care of themselves.

I dress well and I make people laugh at work. I don't sit back like a quiet mouse in any situation I'm in.

I don't see how any if my actions scream "pls come use me."

Also, I'm fairly certain that all the good ones within a 60km radius are just taken at this point and it's not anything in particular that I'm doing.
It's just soy boys and dumbasses left. Not that those things are mutually exclusive, heh

I don't think it's what you are attracting. I don't think you are advertising that you are somehow insecure or whatever it is that you think you are suffering from.

It's not the guys you are attracting, it's the guys you are excepting.

Usually, if all of our relationships end the same way, we are the only common denominator, so as hard as it is we have to figure out exactly what we need to change.

In my case, I had to change the women I was choosing.

 

[Jenn_is_Jenning]

I don't really log much (obviously)

Pin press
80lbs x 4 x 3
T bar row
60lbs x 2 sets of 10
Db row
60lbs x 6
50lbs x 12
Incline Lateral Raises (don't really know how to describe this)
15lbs x 2 sets of 7
Viking press
60lbs x 15
Db tri overhead ext
12.5lbs x 10, x 8
BW pull-ups throughout workout - 18 in total



Anyway ...
Random drive by
I don't think my life has ever been this good. Not even an exaggeration, in the history of my 38 years, life has never been this awesome.
Amazing job, a real best friend, a home gym of my dreams, AND I actually met someone. Like the most amazing kindest guy.
It's just kinda wild to me. I've been bumbling around these forums as a self pity perma single gal for years and I legit thought it would never happen for me.
It's awesome to just flat out say I'm happy and there's nothing weighing me down right now.
I hope everyone had a great Christmas and that 2025 treats you well!

 

[Bro Bundy]

I don't really log much (obviously)

Pin press
80lbs x 4 x 3
T bar row
60lbs x 2 sets of 10
Db row
60lbs x 6
50lbs x 12
Incline Lateral Raises (don't really know how to describe this)
15lbs x 2 sets of 7
Viking press
60lbs x 15
Db tri overhead ext
12.5lbs x 10, x 8
BW pull-ups throughout workout - 18 in total

View attachment 55398

Anyway ...
Random drive by
I don't think my life has ever been this good. Not even an exaggeration, in the history of my 38 years, life has never been this awesome.
Amazing job, a real best friend, a home gym of my dreams, AND I actually met someone. Like the most amazing kindest guy.
It's just kinda wild to me. I've been bumbling around these forums as a self pity perma single gal for years and I legit thought it would never happen for me.
It's awesome to just flat out say I'm happy and there's nothing weighing me down right now.
I hope everyone had a great Christmas and that 2025 treats you well!

Is he Canadian ?

 

[Bro Bundy]

If he is may i suggest taking to Florida for a few months to beef up his manlyness

 

[Jenn_is_Jenning]

If he is may i suggest taking to Florida for a few months to beef up his manlyness

Yes he is Canadian, we live 5 minutes from each other.

 

[CohibaRobusto]

Damn, welcome back! Looking great!

Congrats on finding some happiness too!

 

[CJ]

I don't really log much (obviously)

Pin press
80lbs x 4 x 3
T bar row
60lbs x 2 sets of 10
Db row
60lbs x 6
50lbs x 12
Incline Lateral Raises (don't really know how to describe this)
15lbs x 2 sets of 7
Viking press
60lbs x 15
Db tri overhead ext
12.5lbs x 10, x 8
BW pull-ups throughout workout - 18 in total

View attachment 55398

Anyway ...
Random drive by
I don't think my life has ever been this good. Not even an exaggeration, in the history of my 38 years, life has never been this awesome.
Amazing job, a real best friend, a home gym of my dreams, AND I actually met someone. Like the most amazing kindest guy.
It's just kinda wild to me. I've been bumbling around these forums as a self pity perma single gal for years and I legit thought it would never happen for me.
It's awesome to just flat out say I'm happy and there's nothing weighing me down right now.
I hope everyone had a great Christmas and that 2025 treats you well!

Glad to hear that you're doing well. That's what I was hoping for when you disappeared.

Go live a great life, be happy. You deserve it.

 

[Blusoul24]

I don't really log much (obviously)

Pin press
80lbs x 4 x 3
T bar row
60lbs x 2 sets of 10
Db row
60lbs x 6
50lbs x 12
Incline Lateral Raises (don't really know how to describe this)
15lbs x 2 sets of 7
Viking press
60lbs x 15
Db tri overhead ext
12.5lbs x 10, x 8
BW pull-ups throughout workout - 18 in total

View attachment 55398

Anyway ...
Random drive by
I don't think my life has ever been this good. Not even an exaggeration, in the history of my 38 years, life has never been this awesome.
Amazing job, a real best friend, a home gym of my dreams, AND I actually met someone. Like the most amazing kindest guy.
It's just kinda wild to me. I've been bumbling around these forums as a self pity perma single gal for years and I legit thought it would never happen for me.
It's awesome to just flat out say I'm happy and there's nothing weighing me down right now.
I hope everyone had a great Christmas and that 2025 treats you well!

Alright!! Good for you girl! It's about time you started to realize that you're worthy!

Really happy for you!