- Oct 28, 2020
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I hear this alot from people who are parents; just the sheer amount of energy it takes.I hear you juice.
But, I've only been married to one lady. And we've known each other since Jr high school. Got married in 1997.
We had kids because she wanted them. And I'm glad we did. Our kids now are our family. My oldest daughter has her own family, and my other daughter is married to a good dude also. My son is 17 , still lives with me, but works and does his own thing. He's graduating this summer.
When I say I'm glad I got it over with early, it's not because I regret it, or that the experience was miserable. Because it wasn't. I say it because it was hard, trying and very tedious. And as an older guy, I'm just not sure I'm as up to the job now as I was back then.
So I'm glad I had them early.
I've always been a bit low energy... but I definitely don't think I could hang with the little ones now that I'm older (42 y.o.).