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Edit- i think I just need to be broken in like a new horse 
Edit- first time experiencing deep throat, and from a goddess nonetheless. If you haven’t your missing out…
Edit- will viagra give me an erection while we’re eating dinner?
Edit- should I pop this viagra in my wallet tonight before the party starts?
Edit- trt?
Edit- when trying for penetration with a half chub all I’m thinking is get turned on, which instantly leads to Orgasm. So I think a fully erect penetration would cure the premature ejaculation since I wouldn’t be dead focused on stimulating myself up.
If you don’t have the time or care to read my story what Im seeking is some advice from first hand experience on TRT and or Sildenafil (viagra) when it comes to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety with a new partner. It’s more important to me to satisfy my partner than myself.
Strong points - test is in 200s and estrogen is way high. I’ve had a past history of premature ejaculation with new partners. But after time and getting comfortable i have no problem, But never had an issue getting hard, I also haven’t started seeing anyone new with such low test levels before.
Okay. So met this awesome woman
who I got to spend the night with this last Friday and Saturday night. My nerves were super high due to performance anxiety, so I wasn’t in a primal let’s get it state of mind, but more worried about my performance. Also was enraptured by the beauty of this creature.
I had no issue getting erect during intercourse (this time). I was hard as a rock, but as we were going for penetration my mind starts instantly stressing and as I’m going in I started going past the point of no return. Didn’t last a minute…
She asked how long before I could recover and so we went for round two in maybe 5-10 min. But within 10-20 pumps I had to pull out or I was gonna bust a phat one in literally T-minus 10 seconds againrepeated the pull out and back in game until she was orgasming and then I let that shit go! It was amazing, we both hit the big O at the same time. Maybe lasted 3-5 minutes but that was enough because she orgasmed 
Notes- I smoked a phat few bong rips before going over to her house. My test is low. Estrogen high, and stressing about performance anxiety / maybe I wasn’t completely relaxed around her because this was only our second time seeing each other.
Then, in the morning she wakes me up with the most amazing deep throat action again! And we go for another round first thing in the morning, I shit you not i was having a hard time keeping erect from the time she stopped giving me head to when she was getting on top. And I think having a half erect dong also for some reason causes premature ejaculation, something with the pressure of getting it in while not erect vs it just going on in with a full pointed soldier. Either way a combination of performance anxiety and maybe her head game being too strong and literally as were putting it in I start to loose my erection but at the same time I ejaculated! Even shorter than the first time did I last this third go.
Being the goddess she is she was super open to communicating and I let her know about having performance anxiety and just being super nervous and asked her to just give me some time and she was so understanding. Utop of saying it was a compliment she really supported me and let me know we’re still figuring each other out and have plenty of time to relax and get better later on. This took a weight off my chest. Her main concern was that I didn’t want it, I reassured her it was the exact opposite actually, I want it so much I’m getting over excited, and she was relieved to hear that.
My last relationship I also had this same issue and after a few months I was able to relax with my partner and really get into it. I was able to withhold until she would orgasm every time, so I know this has to be something to do with my nerves.
Anyways, she invited me back over after I got off work and so we had our fourth go that evening, again I faced the daunting fear of orgasming too quick and after getting aroused I lost my erection before penetration, my mind is just not where it should be. So I hit the O in maybe 15-20 seconds. Again with a limp dick. Like how am I fucking orgasming with a limp dick. This makes no fucking sense. I really think that if I was fully hard though upon insertion that I could last.
Fast forward to the morning and she woke me up with some heavenly deep throat action again. I was ready to go physically but mentally was freaking the fuck out, again, I loose erection as we’re putting it in. I was able to power through and get it up inside of her but the whole time I was thinking don’t cum don’t cum don’t cum. And what do I do immediately. Yeah you know.
So here’s where I’m at. - I here trt can help with desire. I am not getting an erection and initiating so that tells me my desire is low, which I know correlates with my low ass T. So now I’m sincerely considering hopping on trt for sexual and mental health reasons. But if this is just an anxiety thing will that really make a diff. More confidence = less anxiety right? Either way my drive is low as it’s ever been so I really think trt may help.
Sildenafil- I have a friend who just tossed me a handful of sildenafil tablets. I threw two in my wallet and plan on popping one the next night we are together, as I feel that maintaining an erection may cure all the mental anxiety about staying up, and maybe this will then cascade into more confidence and lowering anxiety.
Any first hand advice on sildenafil or trt for this? Really interested in takes on the viagra (sildenafil) at the moment as I have it on hand.
Edit- first time experiencing deep throat, and from a goddess nonetheless. If you haven’t your missing out…
Edit- will viagra give me an erection while we’re eating dinner?
Edit- should I pop this viagra in my wallet tonight before the party starts?
Edit- trt?
Edit- when trying for penetration with a half chub all I’m thinking is get turned on, which instantly leads to Orgasm. So I think a fully erect penetration would cure the premature ejaculation since I wouldn’t be dead focused on stimulating myself up.
If you don’t have the time or care to read my story what Im seeking is some advice from first hand experience on TRT and or Sildenafil (viagra) when it comes to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety with a new partner. It’s more important to me to satisfy my partner than myself.
Strong points - test is in 200s and estrogen is way high. I’ve had a past history of premature ejaculation with new partners. But after time and getting comfortable i have no problem, But never had an issue getting hard, I also haven’t started seeing anyone new with such low test levels before.
Okay. So met this awesome woman
who I got to spend the night with this last Friday and Saturday night. My nerves were super high due to performance anxiety, so I wasn’t in a primal let’s get it state of mind, but more worried about my performance. Also was enraptured by the beauty of this creature.I had no issue getting erect during intercourse (this time). I was hard as a rock, but as we were going for penetration my mind starts instantly stressing and as I’m going in I started going past the point of no return. Didn’t last a minute…
She asked how long before I could recover and so we went for round two in maybe 5-10 min. But within 10-20 pumps I had to pull out or I was gonna bust a phat one in literally T-minus 10 seconds again
repeated the pull out and back in game until she was orgasming and then I let that shit go! It was amazing, we both hit the big O at the same time. Maybe lasted 3-5 minutes but that was enough because she orgasmed Notes- I smoked a phat few bong rips before going over to her house. My test is low. Estrogen high, and stressing about performance anxiety / maybe I wasn’t completely relaxed around her because this was only our second time seeing each other.
Then, in the morning she wakes me up with the most amazing deep throat action again! And we go for another round first thing in the morning, I shit you not i was having a hard time keeping erect from the time she stopped giving me head to when she was getting on top. And I think having a half erect dong also for some reason causes premature ejaculation, something with the pressure of getting it in while not erect vs it just going on in with a full pointed soldier. Either way a combination of performance anxiety and maybe her head game being too strong and literally as were putting it in I start to loose my erection but at the same time I ejaculated! Even shorter than the first time did I last this third go.
Being the goddess she is she was super open to communicating and I let her know about having performance anxiety and just being super nervous and asked her to just give me some time
and she was so understanding. Utop of saying it was a compliment she really supported me and let me know we’re still figuring each other out and have plenty of time to relax and get better later on. This took a weight off my chest. Her main concern was that I didn’t want it, I reassured her it was the exact opposite actually, I want it so much I’m getting over excited, and she was relieved to hear that. My last relationship I also had this same issue and after a few months I was able to relax with my partner and really get into it. I was able to withhold until she would orgasm every time, so I know this has to be something to do with my nerves.
Anyways, she invited me back over after I got off work and so we had our fourth go that evening, again I faced the daunting fear of orgasming too quick and after getting aroused I lost my erection before penetration, my mind is just not where it should be. So I hit the O in maybe 15-20 seconds. Again with a limp dick. Like how am I fucking orgasming with a limp dick. This makes no fucking sense. I really think that if I was fully hard though upon insertion that I could last.
Fast forward to the morning and she woke me up with some heavenly deep throat action again. I was ready to go physically but mentally was freaking the fuck out, again, I loose erection as we’re putting it in. I was able to power through and get it up inside of her but the whole time I was thinking don’t cum don’t cum don’t cum. And what do I do immediately. Yeah you know.
So here’s where I’m at. - I here trt can help with desire. I am not getting an erection and initiating so that tells me my desire is low, which I know correlates with my low ass T. So now I’m sincerely considering hopping on trt for sexual and mental health reasons. But if this is just an anxiety thing will that really make a diff. More confidence = less anxiety right? Either way my drive is low as it’s ever been so I really think trt may help.
Sildenafil- I have a friend who just tossed me a handful of sildenafil tablets. I threw two in my wallet and plan on popping one the next night we are together, as I feel that maintaining an erection may cure all the mental anxiety about staying up, and maybe this will then cascade into more confidence and lowering anxiety.
Any first hand advice on sildenafil or trt for this? Really interested in takes on the viagra (sildenafil) at the moment as I have it on hand.
